• "I am not worthy of being loved.”
• “I am not smart/pretty/talented enough.”
• “I could never open my own business.”
• “I don't have enough time to put myself first”
• "I’m not good enough”
• “Who am I to think I can be successful?”
• “I should avoid failure at all costs.”
• “I should never question authority.”
• “I’m too old to study again.”
• “No one will want to date me because I’m divorced.”
• “I’ll never find love.”
• “I’m damaged”
• "Who’d want me?”
• “It’s too late to try anything new”
• “All romantic relationships end in heartbreak.”

Maybe you always have a “but” to negate the forward momentum which propels you backwards keeping you stuck